Earlier this year, for my 31st birthday, I decided to have a vintage, girly, Marie Antoinette-inspired coquette birthday party. It wasn’t a big party at all, it was pretty last-minute and I only hosted a few close friends. The real…
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I’m really in my 30s now! That’s wild. On January 20th, I turned 31. When I started doing these annual posts at 22 (!!!) I wasn’t sure if I would keep doing them, especially after 30 (check out last year’s…
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As someone who has spent MANY Valentine’s Days single, the one thing I always enjoy about this holiday is the aesthetic of it all. Pinks, reds, hearts, bows, etc. And it’s fun to translate that into outfits, no matter how…
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This year, I struggled a bit thinking of what I’d want for Christmas ā which is why this post is going up a mere 11 days before Christmas. But, I guess that’s what happens as you get older. Now that…
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In September, I went to the Usher “Past Present Future” World Tour with my auntie and her friends in Detroit. In the last year, Iāve gone to more concerts than I normally do, but theyāve all been so much fun!…
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Back in January, I turned 30! It’s hard to believe that I’m almost halfway through my 30th year. It honestly doesn’t even feel real. But, I will say, I’ve felt pretty good about entering my 30s and I really do…
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Last weekend, I finally got to see Nicki Minaj in concert again after nine years! The last time I went to a Nicki concert was in 2015 at the then-DTE Energy Music Theatre. I was very excited to see my…
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ā ļø Trigger Warning: mentions of death and suicideāØāļø Dial 988 for the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Happy heavenly birthday to my best friend and brother, Kymontae, who would have been 30 today.Although Kymo wasnāt my brother by blood, we…
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I know it’s kind of weird to be posting this in late March and not in early January. I thought about backdating this post, but honestly, I want to be realistic about how difficult it can be to be motivated…
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It’s a new decade, a new chapter in my life. And although it’s so weird to be leaving my 20s, I’m feeling pretty good about entering my 30s. So many people dread turning 30 and believe that all of a…
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Happy Aquarius season! I just turned 30 on January 20th and I hosted an “RIP to my 20s” birthday party. Last year, I had an Old Hollywood party and it was so much fun. Lately, I’ve been seeing versions of…
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Last year, I had the idea to create a full year in review and I loved the way it turned out. So, I decided to do it again! It’s basically a digital scrapbook of how my year went, all compiled…
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Every year I share what I want for Christmas. And now that I’m about a month away from 30, I debated still doing this post. But, Christmas can be fun and magical no matter how old your are! And even…
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Now that it’s cold outside, I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been basically living in sweatpants, leggings, and hoodies. When you’re plus size, there can be this pressure to always look “put together” so people don’t think…
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Isn’t it interesting how almost every holiday card you get in the mail is based around family updates like engagements, pregnancies, or which kid is graduating which grade? Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But, what if…
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